There was a deleted Reddit post about 9-10 years ago that was made by some galaxy-brained black pilled dude on a bp subreddit who apparently had a PhD in psychology and read all these textbooks. And he actually came up with a detailed “JBG” hypothesis on how an average man can cheat hypergamy.. and I honestly can't tell if it's genius, satire, ahead of its time, or the most tragic cope I've ever seen. Maybe all three. I’ll do my very best to summarize the hypothesis. Here’s what the fuck he said: You have to SLIGHTLY and STRATEGICALLY deviate from your sexuality , just a TAD bit… like barely a blip on the Kinsey scale. Not enough to change who you are, but just enough to unlock a door the hypergamous system never anticipated. And that door leads to trans women. Let me explain before you come to conclusions:
…Firstly… there are some trans women who are visually indistinguishable from biological women in every physical way. I'm serious. Like full pass. You wouldn't know unless told. And in cities across the country, adult theaters, glory hole Reddit forums, underground hookup spaces… they're actually waiting. Not chasing Chad. Not demanding commitment before intimacy. Just… available.
Now I know what you're thinking: "this is homo"… "this is some gay shit"… "This isn't it, bro" But just HEAR me out first, let me explain this loophole and why this isn't considered "gay" in a traditional sense.
Exhibit #1: You're not "changing" your sexuality. Instead, you're just strategically expanding the aperture of what you find attractive by a very slight deviation. Think of it like tweaking a radio frequency. You're not switching stations, you're just adjusting the dial to pick up a signal you were previously filtering out.
The Kinsey Scale runs from 0 exclusively heterosexual to 6 exclusively homosexual. Most men, believe it or not, fall between a 0 or a 1, meaning they're straight but might have a fleeting attraction or curiosity they'd never act on. The "loophole" only requires you to move from a 0 to 0.5 or 1. That's it. Barely perceptible. You're not becoming bisexual or gay… you're just allowing yourself to be attracted to femininity just enough to hookup with someone. For example: if a trans woman presents as female, and she looks virtually indistinguishable as a female, lives as female, and you're attracted to her as a female, then THAT is heterosexuality. You're not attracted to her masculinity. You're attracted to her femininity. The fact that she has a penis doesn't change that… as long as you're not interacting with it. You're essentially exploiting the gap between biological sex and gender presentation. Your brain categorizes her as female. The hypergamous system doesn't.
Exhibit #2: The visual and physical indistinguishability.
Here's where the science gets interesting. Trans women on hormone replacement therapy for several years develop breast tissue often C cup or larger, softer skin from estrogen reducing collagen density, fat redistribution to hips, thighs, and face, reduced body hair, and feminized facial features if they started before bone structure fully masculinized.
Many pass as women completely. You wouldn't know unless they told you. Your brain processes them as female because every visual cue like face, body, voice, and smell triggers the same attraction pathways as a biological woman. Your lizard brain doesn't care about chromosomes. It cares about visual indicators of femininity.
And here's the thing… the most common act guys engage in with trans women is getting head. That's it. Just oral. And you literally cannot tell the difference. Same sensation, same visual, same everything. You're getting physical pleasure, release, intimacy, without the hypergamous filters, without the "loan model," without competing with Chad. It's the ultimate low risk, high reward exploit.
Now for the ultimate question: how do you actually find and hookup with them discreetly? Here's the breakdown.
#1: adult theaters. In every major city like Dallas, Houston, LA, SF, NYC, Chicago, there are adult theaters open 24/7. These are essentially movie theaters showing adult films, but they function more like dark discreet social spaces. You pay a cover, walk in, find a seat. The vibe is dark, anonymous, and can be a bit sketchy. Trans women frequent these spots because they have a sex drive and are willing to give men BJs in the theater or in the private booths. No strings, no names, no commitment. Just mutual convenience. If you're in a city, they exist. You just have to know where to look.
#2: glory hole and hookup subreddits. Reddit is surprisingly useful for this. Subreddits like [r/gloryholes](r/gloryholes), [r/randomactsofblowjob](r/randomactsofblowjob), and city specific hookup forums are full of posts from trans women looking for discreet meets for blow jobs. They're mostly hosting at their place. R4R and T4M. The key is reading the room, look for accounts with history, real posts, and clear intentions. It's raw and unfiltered, but it's also direct. No games. Just adults connecting. Proceed with caution, but it's a legitimate channel.
#3: LGBTQ bars. Yes, I know this sounds gay. Now I know what you're thinking: this is actually gay. But here's the thing… you're being STRATEGIC. You're not there to pick up men, duhhh. Because that would actually be gay, of course… but you're there to seek out trans women. And if you do your Google search on some LGBTQ bars, some have a heavy trans female presence. The key is to find the ones that are known for trans clientele, not gay male bars. Either you can approach them, or they will approach YOU. It's targeted. You're using the venue as a leverage point, not as a lifestyle change. Be respectful, be clear about your intentions, and don't overstay your welcome.
#4: fetish and alternative dating sites. Websites like FetLife, TSDates, and even certain sections of AdultFriendFinder have active trans communities. These platforms are designed for people with specific preferences, so the filter is already built in. You can create a discreet profile, browse, and connect with trans women who are explicitly looking for hookups. No ambiguity, no awkward conversations. Just direct arrangements.
IN SUMMARY:
If you're an average guy who can't compete in this hypergamous market, you can bypass it entirely by strategically and gradually deviating your sexuality by a small degree and hooking up with trans women who are visually indistinguishable from cis women.
Reason #1: trans women aren't filtered through the same hypergamous swiping mechanics as biological women, since they're largely excluded from the top tier dating pool, making them far more open to average guys.
Reason #2: trans women generally have a higher sex drive than biological women due to testosterone exposure during development, making the dynamic more reciprocal and less transactional than the "loan model" with biological women.
Reason #3: if she passes completely with face, body, breasts, hips, voice, presentation, your brain registers female, so your sexuality isn't actually changing. You're just recalibrating your inputs to trigger the same attraction pathways. She could give you head, and you literally wouldn't be able to tell the difference. Same sensation. Same visual. Same result.
Reason #4: trans sex workers and underground hookup spaces like adult theaters and glory hole forums often come at a lower cost than cis alternatives because demand is lower, making this not just a biological exploit but an economic one too.
It's funny, It's sad.. It's galaxy-brained. And the math checks out 🤣🤣
Source: r/Clavicular · by /u/Superb_Entry1635