So me and two other friends are having our annual minecraft grind time and wanted to play together. So we made a modpack and friend 1 is hosting with dathost. Friend 2 can join the server but for me its just says Disconnected. Its not an issue w mods since I can play solo no problem and the other weird issue is if we change the modpack to an official curseforge modpack (much larger aswell, we have less then 100 mods and the one we used had like 300+) I have no issue connecting to the server, I have tried all the fixes that would usually fix a disconnect error: flushed dns, reset firewall, reset network, reinstalled curseforge, reinstalled Minecraft, etc. And honestly we are at our wits end. If anyone has any ideas or help it would be greatly appreciated.
Source: r/CurseForge · by /u/mondberrie